No, not that.
There’s a great Monty Python bit in which the suitor is talking to his intended wife’s father. The abbreviated version would go something like this.
Graham Chapman: “Do you have a position?”
Michael Palin: (Snort) “I cleans public lavatories.”
Graham Chapman: “And is there a potential for promotion?”
Michael Palin: “Yeah–after five years they gives me a brush.”
We spend the first quarter of our life preparing to take on a position. The next two quarters of our lives, we define ourselves by our positions. Finally, we learn that our position is what we do, not who we are.
Jackson Browne (with, perhaps some help from his neighbor Don Henley) may have said it best in “Running on Empty”:
Gotta do what you can just to keep your love alive
Trying not to confuse it with what you do to survive
We are who we are and we do what we do–don’t confuse them.